Nothing But The Best For You, Boo
Ladies, do you love yourself? I mean, REALLY love yourself? I’m not talking about just saying you look pretty with this hairstyle or in that outfit. I’m not talking about loving the you that you hope to someday become. I’m talking about loving you as you are, flaws and all. I’m talking about knowing your worth and not settling for anything less. You deserve the absolute best, but YOU have to know that you deserve it. YOU are the prize not a man. You should NEVER think that you have to put up with cheating or abuse or outright disrespect JUST to say you have a man. It IS better to be alone than to be in a dysfunctional, unhealthy relationship. Don’t stay for the kids. Don’t stay because you’ve been together for years and you’re scared to start over. Don’t stay because you’re afraid of what others will say or think if you leave. A man who truly loves you would want the best for you. He would support you in all that you set out to do. I know we always hear about women “holding their man down” and whatnot, but ladies, if he isn’t doing the same for you, there’s no need. A one sided relationship will only cause you heartache and pain. Life is too short to settle and be unhappy. Learn to be happy with you before you try to be happy with someone else. It is so important to know who you are and what you want before entering a relationship. I just want us to live healthier mentally, physically, and spiritually, ladies. Please take the time to get to know yourself, you owe it to yourself.