• Shakina Cooley

Sexy Is A State Of Mind


I know we’d all like to believe that we’ve never lost our sexy, unfortunately though, many of have. We’ve lost the sexy we once had. Am I saying we aren’t sexy? No! Am I saying we can’t BE sexy? Hell no! What I am saying though is that many of us have lost the ability to actually view ourselves as sexy whether it’s due to weight loss, weight gain, stretch marks, aging, scars, etc. I have news for you though, NONE OF THOSE THINGS MATTER!! You are sexy because you are you! Doesn’t matter how big or small, short or tall or whatever else you are. Sexy starts in YOUR mind. It’s all about your mindset and confidence. So, I’m going to tell you a few things I do to help ME feel sexy and I’d like to hear what you do to make YOU feel sexy too.

1. I sometimes wear lingerie under my clothes. No one’s going to see it, but just the fact that I know I’m wearing it just gives me that extra boost of confidence.

2. I throw on a pair of heels. I don’t know what it is, but sometimes even when I’m feeling down on my luck, putting on that pair of heels just puts me in the best of spirits

3. I take selfies and point out the things I DO like about my body. My legs, my curves, etc I just go over the pic and tell myself just how beautiful I am. “Damn you fine l, girl!” 😉

What are some things that you fo to feel sexy? Let me know in the comments!

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